Social Chaos: Answers?

Have you felt like you couldnt read and understand people? their actions confuse you? you wonder why some of the people who were cool with you did a 360 and you wonder why? you wonder why things change and you dont know? you wonder why they tell you they were this when you thought they were this, and you weren't aware of it and they held you accountable for it, even though they didnt make it clear? you wonder why these people would deceive you into thinking they are cool or friends with you, when they really werent? and they acted like they were cool with you and you were shocked to find out they really werent? and everything seemed to be a blur about it. You wrestle with it. you wonder why your friends would deceive you like that? and you couldny read them? Things are quite confusing. You wonder why they would hide stuff from you, their feelings, emotions, conflict problems, you wonder why they didnt inform you they werent friends. You wonder why in your head, it seemed like a friend, but they didnt really mean it that way. You seem puzzled, wondering how to read people and their actions. People keep deleting you and not adding you on facebook, twitter, etc, thinking they rejected you. So I keep guessing, hopefully I got it right, and hopefully I dont misread people, even though they arent helpful in knowing it.