Asperger's and Dating - Any tips?

See if there are any supports in your area first. My boyfriend runs a support group for adult Aspies and helps coordinate a social group. Something like that can be a big help. You mention being aware of reading too much into things. That is a good start. Always keep in mind that a new relationship is generally neutral. Finding group activities where you can get to know a person before asking them out is the best way to start. Try reading Cosmopolitan, it gives men and women insight into how the opposite works. Just don't take everything they say literally. When you start dating someone keep in mind that disclosure should happen fairly early and be prepared. Bring pamphlets or a short book about Asperger's and be ready to answer questions and recommend other books. The one I found most helpful when my boyfriend and I started dating was Attwood's Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome. And I hate to say but sometimes all you can do is step outside your comfort zone. I have my own issues with mental health and social anxiety so I do know how difficult this is, but if you can force yourself into it at least once it will get easier over time. Take all the time and make all the preparations you need. It will not be easy finding someone that's accepting and understanding since Asperger's is not well known but I promise you there are people out there. I know because I'm one of them.